Sex

     Sex is a very sacred and important part to each marital relationship. It should not be abused by preforming it out of wedlock. Most people think of sex and they think of two things, men think of a vagina, and women think of a penis. The real point of sex is missed though and its true purpose is quickly lost. You see sex was designed to bring couples closer together, to give husband and wife a bond and sense of knowing "all" of each other that no one else has. 

    The human body was perfectly designed by our creator and every part of our body has certain functions. The penis is designed to enter the vagina and this causes the male to body to produce large amounts of testosterone and creates a high intensity of arousal until reaching a climax. For the male once reaching a climax a small bond forms between him and that girl. The sex will also create dopamine in the brain which help to create feelings of love and can make the man fall in love faster and harder. It can also help the man to feel supported, valuable, and important in the relationship. So, after reading that you might wonder or ask, "Is sex important?" And to that I say YES! Sex is Crucial and good sex is even more crucial to a relationship. But don't worry ladies, sexually pleasing a man is simple and at times too easy. You see the male can climax just from inserting his penis in the vagina, but that isn't the case for a female. 

    The female body has key parts designed specifically for sensation and sexual pleasure. The main one is actually located right above the vagina and does not receive the attention needed simply from just inserting a penis in the vagina. You see the female body was also designed to produce a chemical that is a little different than dopamine and maybe even more potent. This chemical is called Oxytocin and will absolutely flood the brain during sex. This hormone is commonly known as the "cuddle hormone" and can cause serious feelings of attachment. A good example of the power that this chemical has is the connection between a mom and her child while an infant. I am sure we have all seen someone with their baby that is just not by any means the cutest or most adorable baby on earth. Yet while we are thinking "is that a possum?" in our heads, they are openly expressing that their baby is the absolute "most beautiful baby on earth." Even as a mother can lover her ugly baby unconditionally, your wife can love you! But you must put lots of attention in a respectful manner on making her climax and having a relationship full of good sex. However, we must be careful because there are a lot of outside factors that could ruin sex and a relationship.

    I will now give couple of examples of what commonly goes wrong in relationships when it comes to sex. One thing that we need to understand is that a male brain has a lot of grey matter, this makes it to where the man can often only put his attention on one thing at a time. So, while having sex the man could be focused 100% on the intercourse and happy as a lark. While the girl might be in an uncomfortable position, cold, wondering what she's going to make for dinner, or stressed about school or work. This something like this could cause the man to feel unloved, or insecurities about his ability to perform. In the adverse, a man and his wife could both be at a passionate level and the man could climax before the woman. The woman might desire more in order to feel the sensation of the climax and so that her body can release the very important oxytocin chemical, but because of the man's brain full of grey matter he has left to work on his car in the garage and all of his focus is there. This can cause the women to feel like an object, unloved, used, and will also result in lack of attachment because of the lack of oxytocin released. You see there is a lot more that goes into sex than just a penis and vagina, and it is crucial that couples realize this and put emphasis on sex and what it can do for them and their marriage.

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